Monday, September 28, 2009

Sunday Afternoon

He called me on the telephone only to say he was pulling down my driveway. Immediately my mind began to race with the anticipation of feeling him close, my lips on his lips. The weekend has been less than easy for him as he returns from a trip and a funeral of a loved one. He needs to connect and feel some passion and perhaps release some tension.

I quietly ask him to come into my home to spend some alone time to which he agrees. He excuses himself to use the restroom only to find me waiting when he comes out. We embrace and kiss looking into each others eyes with longing desire. He immediately slides his hand up my skirt only to find there are no panties. I swing the bedroom door closed with my foot and the excitement builds. As we continue to kiss, we only remove part of our clothes as there is no time to waste. My lover immediately lays be back on my bed and begins to lick my wet kitty with long, slow strokes of his tongue. My excitement continues to build until he looks me in the eyes before sliding his hard cock into me with one smooth movement, which takes my breath away and has be lifting to meet him on every stroke. Looking into his eyes he pulls back a bit and just teases me with the head of his cock, until I beg him to let me have all of him. Again - full penetration sends us both over the edge while looking directly into each others eyes and kissing very tenderly.

Wish these moments could last forever........

Friday, September 25, 2009

Fill In Friday

  1. One week ago it was raining like mad, now the sun is back and I'm loving it.
  2. When I was young I would have never dreamt that I would have a loving husband and black lover on the side.
  3. Mama told me I've become a beautiful woman inside and out and she is very proud of who I am.
  4. You and me can overcome anything together.
  5. Take your time, I'm not going anywhere.
  6. Hard times will pass.
  7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to a quiet evening at home, tomorrow my plans include visiting a family friend and grocery shopping, and Sunday, I want to enjoy the nice weather before it fades to cooler days.

You know you want to play Fill in Fridays!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

How Close is Too Close?

I have to admit, I have not had the pleasure of keeping company to my friend 'L' lately. Work and real life have a tendency to get in the way at times, damn it. We do text and talk frequently and have continued getting to know one another on an intellectual level as well as some erotic picture exchange. It's all good to keep the fires burning when time doesn't permit that connection.

I am very surprised on how the relationship is progressing....and have been struggling a bit to keep the balance at home. I'm sure my other fellow blogger's in the lifestyle can relate. L is pushing for some one-on-one time and hubby is not comfortable (for lack of a better word) with me going off to be alone. Our balance all along is that my husband is involved in some way, whether it is through video, pictures, visually watching foreplay, etc. I'm sure this is in part the reason for his reluctance for condoning the along time. In addition, I get the feeling that he is also attempting to control how close or connected my friend and I become. I find this interesting as all along my husband and I have discussed me having a lover, rather than just a 'fuck buddy' and he was rather encouraging that I should try to find someone like this as of course the sex would be more fulfilling and because I prefer focusing on one friend at a time. As this particular relationship is progressing, I get the feeling he feels threatened in some way or feels that perhaps he is not in control of the situation.

My question goes out to those of you that have similar experiences. What boundaries have you established and is it a matter of the husband retaining complete control over the situation that keeps the comfort level in place? I would like to hear both male and female perspectives on this topic. Don't get me wrong, of course the arousal of the interracial relationship is there for both of us and I do enjoy having an intellectual and perhaps even slightly emotional bond with my new partner. I have made it clear to 'L' that my place is with my husband and nothing will change that and he has acknowledged that he is aware of the 'package deal' (hubby is in the vicinity, but does not participate); however still would like to have some alone time with me. He has indicated he feels like he cannot completely be himself with me in such a controlled environment. I would also be interested in hearing from the 'lover' perspective that engages in this type of relationship with a married couple. Do you feel that you can be yourself or do you feel restricted with your partner's spouse close by?

Hopefully I will have some intimate recount to share with you very soon, in the meantime just pondering - how close is too close?

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Lifestyle Accessories

I recently had the pleasure of reviewing a site that provides some very attractive accessories to somewhat flaunt lifestyle choices. Among my favorites are the anklet showcasing BBC and the 'Queen of Spades' temporary tattoo. I absolutely would love to own these to add to my attire when I am meeting up with my friend.

So for those of you that love to flaunt your lifestyle choices on occasion or simply want to add some decorative jewelry or temporary tattoo's to entice your partner, make sure to check out They have a variety of body jewelry, nipple charms and temporary tattoo's so I'm sure you'll find something you like.
I hope to acquire my two favorite pieces shown above in the very near future.