Continued Enjoyment

I have to say that I am absolutely loving the friendship that I am building with my newest friend, let's call him 'L'. L came over last Friday afternoon early in the day, very nice - I get to spend some extra time. Fortunately for me, my son had a football game and my daughter was at the neighbors for several hours. Having this bit of extra freedom we all sat out in the barn area while my husband was doing some wood working, I took a seat on my L's lap dressed in a mini skirt and tank top - no panties btw. We did some touching, kissing, a bit of grinding and when I stood to go and get some water L very smoothly slipped his hand up the backside of my skirt and played with my kitty while I stood in front of him. He is also warming up very nicely as he did some nibbling on my breasts (through my tank top).

It wasn't long before I brought him in the house to play and what fun we did have. I love undressing him and giving his cock some extra attention to get things started. I started by kissing him tenderly on the mouth and worked my way down his chest while stroking on his BBC. It simply looked too good not to wrap my lips around it as well, Mmmmmmm. Much to my delight we switched positions shortly and he kissed and licked my kitty as it warmed up for him to give me that BBC, which I certainly asked for by telling him how much I wanted to feel him.

This time around was missionary style the entire time, but the stroke was nice and slow with deep grinding motions as he made sure that he was fully in me. Damn he feels so good and my arousal went through the roof each time he told me he was cumming. Yes - this means it was more than once. When finished, I rested my head on his chest for a bit as we cuddled and relished in the delight at that moment. I then kissed him very tenderly for a few more moments before we dressed to rejoin my husband outside. I would say that he is becoming more comfortable as I see a bit more aggression each time we have the opportunity to play. Damn, I cannot wait until the next time........

Round II

My very fine new friend came to visit me again on a Saturday evening not so long ago. I greeted him affectionately with a hug and kiss and then the three of us (hubby, friend, myself) hung out for awhile, I made dinner, and then we listened to music and held hands for a short while. When we came in the house I took my place next to my friend on the love seat as he rubbed up my leg to that warm wet spot between my legs. He then leaned in and indicated he was more than ready to take things into the other room.

We proceeded with me kissing, undressing him and having him lay back so I can play, lick and suck his BBC to help him relax and for my own enjoyment of course. Moments later he entered my hot, wet pussy and fucked me slow and strong for quite some time. He then rolled over and positioned me on top of him allowing me to control the pace, depth, and motion. Very erotic, I love being able to do exactly what I want. My friend is very well built from top to bottom and has an incredibly soft touch, yet the strength behind it to get exactly what he wants. The short amount of time together was incredible! I don't know how anyone could not love and desire BBC, lol.

I would absolutely love the opportunity to have him alone for a day, unrestrained, no interruptions, and the freedom to kiss, fuck and cuddle all day long. I have a feeling he would unleash some of those desires with even more force.

That "Wow" Connection

I am a lucky woman, my newest friend came to visit me on Saturday evening. I have to admit, I have a deep desire for this man - you know the whole butterflies in the stomach, aching to be intimate feeling. I have finally met a friend that I feel that connection with. The sad thing is - the moments come and go way to quickly. Hopefully that will change - both of us have busy lives right now, so steeling the moments to relax, play and cuddle make it extra special.

I haven't discussed it much before, however since I began living this lifestyle many of the encounters that I had were very empty. In the beginning, my husband was much more the advocate for such behavior than I was. It took me awhile to come around, however I have always been open to new ideas. What I have come to realize is that when I had sex simply to please my husband (by watching, videoing, etc) the encounter was mediocre or less than that. I would guess we started entertaining the lifestyle about 6 years ago - and this will make only my 2nd 'wow' experience. It truly makes a difference when you make a good connection and have that desire to be with the person. Admittedly there have been a couple others that the sex was good - however it wasn't great.

Geez, I'm getting all philosophical here - my point is if you choose to experiment with the lifestyle and want the experience to be incredible - select only those that you are really drawn to and the rest will be icing on the cake. I believe fellow bloggers would have to agree, we get signals that the experience isn't going to be great - so why do we bother putting ourselves through the motions? Yes - I know it is for the sex, but when all is said and done we kick ourselves in the ass for not passing that one by.

Anyhoo - Happy Tuesday and I hope you all find that 'WOW' connection that facilitates incredible sex.

Birthday Present?

I got a nice surprise after all. My new friend returned on Friday night (the day before my birthday), and we (friend/hubby/myself) listened to music out in the yard and talked most of the night away. We did manage to kiss and touch on occasion and it was very exciting - I haven't put my finger on it yet, but this new friend definitely excites me more than any of the others I have had. He is very gentle in touch, yet strong, confident, well mannered- smart.......okay I don't need to go on, you get the picture.

Any way.....after the kids went to bed around 11pm we continued to listen to music and then finally came in the house to chat a bit, hold hands, etc. We (all three of us) determined he should stay as by now it was around 2 a.m. I asked him if he would like to join me in the bedroom to get better acquainted and he accepted! Yes - now that it is after midnight, it is officially my birthday and I did get that present I was hoping for. Although he was extremely nervous, things went well once the ball was rolling. Conversation has been great since then and I expect that next time, things will be even better.

Happy Birthday to me!

Still Kicking!

Hello Everyone, I know it's been a while but I thought I would take a moment to say hello. I have found and am implementing the changes I want to see in my life and feel great about that.

I met a new friend yesterday evening - and OMG is he fucking hot! We have emailed and talked a bit on the phone for quite sometime and finally agreed to meet face-to-face. The three of us (hubby, new friend and myself) talked for about 2 hours before he had to leave. No - of course I didn't jump him first thing y'all. He is very sexy, tall, well built and well mannered. I am looking forward to developing a friendship that leads to lots of benefits with him. He is new to this scene, so I don't want to scare him off by jumping him before he's ready, lol.

However, my birthday is coming up on Saturday and this would be an excellent present for me! We did share a kiss before he left and mmmmmmmmm, I can't wait for more. Very soft and sexy indeed.

I have decided that the changes I need to make are with myself. Outlook on life - need to focus more on good things and things that bring pleasure to life and my family. Overall health and physical strengths.

No, I am not giving up the other lifestyle entirely as that brings pleasure to hubby and myself.

I will continue to share any fun that I have and perhaps share some general thoughts as well. My first thought is that I need to start eating healthier and exercising. Much of my day is spent on my ass in front of a computer - because of work and school. I can honestly say - I don't spend a significant amount of time on this site or any others but try to check in for 5 or 10 minutes when I can.

Thanks for letting me bend your ear.

Change

I woke up this week needing change in my life. Until I figure out what that change entails, I have removed my older posts. For those that followed, I apologize and hope you aren't too disappointed.